3 The Clarifying Conversation

A Curriculum for Technical and Compliance Professionals · 3:21

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[Verse 1]
When your boss says "not strategic enough"
Don't get defensive, don't act tough
Take a breath and count to three
There's a better way to be
Ask for clarity with grace
Put yourself in learning space

[Chorus]
Acknowledge first, then ask for more
Specific examples, that's what for
What would strategic look like here?
Make their vision crystal clear
Don't debate, just listen well
Let their story start to tell

[Verse 2]
Start by saying "I appreciate
The feedback that you want to share
Help me understand your view
So I can follow through"
Don't explain what you were thinking
That will leave your credibility sinking

[Chorus]
Acknowledge first, then ask for more
Specific examples, that's what for
What would strategic look like here?
Make their vision crystal clear
Don't debate, just listen well
Let their story start to tell

[Bridge]
"Can you give me one concrete case
Where my approach missed the mark?"
"What would you have done instead?"
These questions light up what's in their head
The word "strategic" means different things
To different people, different wings

[Chorus]
Acknowledge first, then ask for more
Specific examples, that's what for
What would strategic look like here?
Make their vision crystal clear
Don't debate, just listen well
Let their story start to tell

[Outro]
This conversation's not the time
To prove that you were right in line
Just gather data, understand
Then show them with your future plans

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