Module 9 — The therapeutic alliance with an elderly Quebecer, in French (8 h)

piano, rap · 2:51

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Lyrics

[Verse 1]
Grand piano underneath the sitar's drone,
We're learning how to meet someone who'd rather be alone —
*C'est pour les fous*, they say, *on lave son linge sale en famille*,
The priest once held this silence, now you're asked to fill
The space where shame and pride have grown like roots in limestone ground,
*Se tenir debout* means standing firm — they won't be falling down,
Men especially, they'll sit and talk about the weather,
So you learn to hold the room, you let the quiet gather

[Chorus]
Name the work in plain words, *jaser*, take the time,
*Prendre le temps de parler de ce qui pèse* — that's the rhyme,
Sitar shimmer, patient breath, the trust is filiform —
Thin but real, and strong enough to hold against the storm of form,
Not jargon, not condescension — *prenez votre langue, je vous suis*,
You follow where they lead, you're not the one who has to be the guide

[Verse 2]
You're anglophone, they know it — some will test your verb conjugation,
Some will switch to English just to spare you the frustration,
Gently reroute: *Prenez votre langue* — make your effort visible,
But never let them carry you, that burden's indivisible,
Some resent the outsider, some find it somehow easier
To tell a stranger secrets — either way you're not a saviour,
You're the one who showed up speaking French in a Quebec corridor,
That's not nothing, that's a threshold — call it *préambule*, not metaphor

[Chorus]
Name the work in plain words, *jaser*, take the time,
*Prendre le temps de parler de ce qui pèse* — that's the rhyme,
Sitar shimmer, patient breath, the trust is filiform —
Thin but real, and strong enough to hold against the storm of form,
Not jargon, not condescension — *prenez votre langue, je vous suis*,
You follow where they lead, you're not the one who has to be the guide

[Verse 3]
Check the hearing aid, the light, the dentures, where the pain lives,
Shorter sessions, split the hour — presence is what time gives,
Home visit with the spouse there watching from the kitchen doorway,
Institutional halls with trays — you work the space the floor gave,
*Ne pas déranger*, they whisper, *je me débrouille encore*,
Pride and shame around dependence — knock before you open that door,
Self-deprecating humour is a *quiproquo* — a feint,
Laugh with them, not over them, and hold what they call quaint

[Bridge]
The Church — a comfort and a laceration,
Open the door without a destination,
Reminiscence, life review, the narrative that threads
Through CBT, through ACT, through everything that mends —
All of it in French, *la belle langue*, spoken soft and clear,
Evidence-based and human-shaped for everything they fear

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